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One of Those Moods

Jameka — Thu, 24 May 2012 19:49:43 +0000

It’s interesting (for lack of a better word) to know that someone you used to be in a relationship with truly feels like you are the one who got away. I know that if I even mouthed the words let’s give this another shot, I would get zero resistance. I don’t do reruns. But I do like the validation of knowing I wasn’t the crazy one after all:-).

Just reminiscing a bit today people. I can truly say the past is the past, and I am SO grateful to be standing in the spot I am in today. Thank you Jesus for Grace.

Happy Valentine’s Day Fellas!

Jameka — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 13:00:14 +0000

I won’t lie, Valentine’s Day is tough for me. I’m such a romantic, so being single stings a little on holidays (especially when I’d like to straight jack cupid for his bow, ’cause obviously that thang ain’t working, lol). Nevertheless, I appreciate the great men in my life who are always respectful, thoughtful and true gentlemen in every sense of the word.

I’ve been blessed to have some super incredible male friends. And while, I may not be in an exclusive relationship with any one of them (although there is one very strong contender, you know who you are), my interactions with these men are shining examples of how I know I want to be treated. They keep me honest. They make me laugh. Most of all, they tell me the truth. For that, I’m grateful.

And because these men mean the world to me, I’m posting a music tribute. Enjoy!

Fellas, I Love you! Happy Valentine’s Day!

Guys…My Gift To You

Jameka — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 05:59:15 +0000

It is so important to show love to the good men in our lives. There are so many jerks out there that we sometimes forget that there are some really great guys who are respectful and are looking to cherish us…So fellas this is for you:-)

Enjoy!

Stuck Between a Rock & a Hard Place

Jameka — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 17:16:02 +0000

My emotions have been all over the board lately…I have two very nice gentlemen who, somehow, have been able to fly under the radar and penetrate my defenses…I am not exactly sure how that happened. After publicly and privately proclaiming my willingness, not to forget eagerness at being single, happy and carefree with my casual dating situation (couple of dinners here, meetings over coffee there), how did I get here? I’m currently at a place where both guys like me very much (I think) and are appreciative to what I could potentially bring to the table in terms of relationship currency. And these two fellas couldn’t be more alike AND different, talk about a sista being confused. Both have the heart of an artist and the mind of an astute business executive, which is an extremely attractive and magnetic quality. But how they are showing their interest in me is in start contrast. Basically, one guy is aggressive and forward in letting me know his feelings. The other, talk about passive aggressive….but he still shows affection in the most simple and sweet ways. The comfort level is amazing. I don’t know. We will see what develops. Both need to step it up though, before neither gets the prize.

Hiatus???

Jameka — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 22:05:50 +0000

So I am strongly considering going an all out dating hiatus (or dating freeze, whichever term makes you happy), but I’m not sure. Several of my friends have decided to do it, and they are having great results…But seriously, do I want to give up going and interacting with men just because? HECK NO…I admire my friends who are able to do it , and I even respect the reasons for which they have decided to halt on “dating.” But after taking a long look at myself, I can honestly say…I’m okay. Although there are things that I personally want to work on about myself, I feel comfortable with my state of being at the moment, that allowing a man to get to know me would not be a distraction or a detriment at this point in time. Still…the dating hiatus thing is one to chew one, who knows, maybe I will take the plunge.