I have a Confession

30 01 2012

Okay, so I don’t really have a confession, but I am excited about a new series of events that my company is producing.  We’ve decided to tackle the topic of relationships, which seems to be the ever present elephant in the room.  So,  if you are in the Charlotte area, please come out and support.  AND it’s a fundraiser for a great cause as well.  Read all about it below:

 

A bi-weekly Chat & Chew to discuss relationships in and open, honest, and uncensored environment. Come join us to talk about RELATIONSHIPS in a friendly and mature setting. Similar to a Barbershop or Hair Salon, nothing is off limits!

Tickets are $10 and a portion of the proceeds will be donated to benefit The Red Pump Project-Charlotte to provide HIV/AIDS awareness and education. 

Voice your opinion, enjoy light fare, drink specials, network with new people and support a good cause all at once. See you there! Please register and purchase your ticket here.

Feb. 20th Topic

Why Am I Going In Circles? Relationship tips on dating and friendships. How to recognize a great friend or a great lover? Discuss how men and women can identify the differences and build  healthy relationships.

 Our Special Guest Facilitator: CM Writer (Attorney, Author, Speaker, Columnist, and Relationship Blogger)

 


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Time To Rock The Red! Meet Red Pump Charlotte

19 01 2012

The Red Pump Project – Charlotte invites you to join us for an informational meet and greet on Wednesday, February 1, 2012, from 6:30 – 8:30 pm, at HBAR (inside Hyatt House, formerly Hotel Sierra in Uptown Charlotte).   

Red Pump Charlotte is fueled up for a very active 2012, and we need your help in ensuring a successful year!  This will be a casual networking exprience in a social atmosphere. While you’re there, you’ll have the opportunity to:

  • Meet the Red Pump Charlotte Ambassadors
  • Learn how you can get involved with The Red Pump Project
  • Learn more about our 2012 programming and chosen beneficiary
  • Share your ideas on where you would like to see Red Pump Charlotte involved

If you’re interested in getting involved with The Red Pump Project, meet us at HBAR!

As always, Red Pumps and Red Ties are highly encouraged!  Please Register for this free event at http://meetredpumpcharlotte.eventbrite.com


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The List (2011 Edition)

28 12 2011

We all have our celebrity crushes; I’m just not shy about sharing mine:-).  A few years ago, I started making a yearly “list” of famous gentlemen who tickled my fancy. I figured it was time to unveil this year’s compilation. So, why am I doing this–purely for entertainment. Click here to see my pics from a few years ago, some of my favorites made the list again, lol. 

Here’s the list, in no particular order…

Denzel Washington

Yes, Denzel is almost old enough to be my father…but I’m saying, there needs to be a law against just how much ‘swag” one man can possess. Like a fine wine.

Channing Tatum

Not sure what it is about him.  Classic American looks maybe?  Not sure, but I love to see him, well, do anything on screen. Loved him in the movie Fighting.

Jesse Williams

He’s beautiful.  Those eyes. That’s all. I’m already a Grey’s Anatomy fan, this just sealed the deal.

LL Cool J

Once I figure out where LL’s fountain of youth is located, I’m going there. He’s an intelligent business man, talented and is a dedicated husband and father.  What’s not to like?

Idris Elba

My knees go weak just mentioning the name, looking at a photo or hearing that GORGEOUS accent.  I’m determined to have him DJ one of my events just so I can look at him (yeah, I said it).

Common

I have been infatuated with Common since his first album…and even more attracted after learning some key facts: He’s a Christian, well-educated and a vegan (or strict vegetarian, either way I’ll take it). A man who loves the Lord and eats how I eat, YES!

 

Matthew McConaughey

A country boy with soul.  Love it.

Lenny Kravitz

He’s the quintessential rock star.  AND the only man who gets a free pass to wear skinny jeans.

 Joe Manganiello

I’ve watched True Blood since the series began, he’s the reason why I continued to watch when he joined the cast. He’s also done some non-profit work and supports the fight against HIV/AIDS.

 

Tyson Beckford

I have had a crush on Tyson since the first time I saw his photo.  He’s a super model for sure, but there’s also a delicate yet rugged quality about him.  And I also love chocolate skin.

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Awareness is Sexy!

8 11 2011

I certainly have my personal hit list–the qualities and characteristics that I find most alluring about the opposite sex–but as I head into the third year of planning for my World AIDS Day event, I must say, out of everything, I find  awareness mad sexy.  Awareness about education, awareness about social issues awareness about what is going on in the world…not just sports and music (although, per a recent twitter conversation, you need to be into music and sports for me to find you attractive, lol).  However, ultimately, I find a man who is well versed about how to keep himself safe as well as those around him absolutely beautiful.  Men who aren’t afraid of abstinence and are proud to wait for the right one.  Men who aren’t afraid to say, no, we can’t do this without a condom.  Men who will go with you to get that all important HIV test.  Men who understand that awareness, especially when it comes to reproductive and sexual health is always a top priority and not an afterthought.  Men who know how to lead in all aspects of their lives: spiritually, physically and mentally.

We need our men to support us. Join me on December 1st as we celebrate life and bring some awareness and education about HIV/AIDS in our community.  This fight is still on…pretending it doesn’t exist will not make it go away.  I hope to see every man in my life there, rocking a red tie in support:-)

Tickets: http://2011redpumpredtieaffair.eventbrite.com


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Men, Men and More Men: Best Bachelor Auction Ever 2011

3 11 2011

So, Kim over at Metro Proponent has done it again.  She is bringing us a night of fun philanthropy.  Ladies, come out, bid on some single guys while supporting a great cause…If nothing else, enjoy some yummy eye candy–you know we can all use a dose of that:-)

The Best Bachelor Auction Ever 2011: Ladies support the cause & show who’s the BOSS!

Would you like to see your brand logo on the big screens at the Best bachelor Auction Ever 2011? Also, in the gift bags, on the flyers, in the Metro Proponent, and passed out at the event? Sponsorships are needed to provide dates for the bachelors and winning bidders.

WHAT: Charity Bachelor Auction benefitting youth affected by domestic violence and Thomas Davis Defending Dreams Foundation.

WHEN: November 10, 2011 7pm

WHERE: Kalu (505 East 6th Street, Charlotte NC 28202)

WHO: Charlotte’s most eligible and desired bachelors~ and YOU! WITH DJ A ROCK!

WHY: Networking, Philanthropic Efforts, Good Times, and Food! (All winning-bidding ladies will receive an all expensed paid date compliments of our sponsors.)


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No More Special Treatment

27 10 2011

Today’s post comes from a very real and personal place for me.  Ladies–and I’m including myself–we have got to stop bestowing special treatment on men who have either (a) have not put any effort into gaining that designation or (b) flat out don’t deserve it.

Example: I can be very accommodating to the people in my close circle.  I am a listening ear, shoulder when needed, idea generator, caregiver, whatever, I’m that person.  And yes, we should be that for our friends, regardless if it is reciprocated in the way that we would like (after all, you can only control your own actions, thoughts and perceptions).  However, we must be careful when we provide that type of comfort for our male friends.  I often get into the habit of treating my male friends like boyfriends (minus the intimacy)…and recently, I had a light bulb moment, this has to stop.  What has any of these men done to deserve that type of time and energy from me.  They get all the perks without any of the commitment or accountability, with the excuse “We’re just friends.”   With the “friends” designation, there are no guidelines or expectations.  And I’m not cool with that.  It’s definitely not the guys’ fault.  Who wouldn’t want all that great attention, thoughtfulness, and even “just wishing you a great day” phone calls and texts–especially when you don’t have to do anything for it?  It’s completely my fault.

So today moving forward, for the men in my life, I am going to treat you as what you are…a friend, without the special treatment that should reserved for those who are actually interested and WANT to shower me with the same care, attention and thoughtfulness that I’m willing, able and often available to give.

As with most things that are highly enjoyable in life, you will need to work hard to reap the benefits, nothing good comes easy…


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The Intro MatchMakers: Something New For The QC

10 06 2011

New Matchmaking and Personal Concierge Service

Makes Life and Love Easier for Charlotte-Area Executives

The Intro MatchMakers Officially Opens for Business in the Queen City June 24

Charlotte, NC—June 10, 2011—The Intro Matchmakers was created with a simple goal in mind—to make the lives of busy professionals easier both personally and professionally.  The Intro provides personalized and private matchmaking and concierge services to the city’s most elite executives.  The Intro will celebrate its official launch in the Queen City with an intimate, private invite-only reception in Uptown Charlotte the evening of June 24. 

The Intro is a personal matchmaking and concierge firm bringing together love and elite lifestyle services to career-focused professionals, executives and professional athletes. The company offers exclusive memberships to only the most accomplished individuals seeking a happy and healthy relationship with someone special. The Intro’s confidential one-on-one approach allows for privacy and discretion in that search for companionship and love. Their clients have high standards, and with the help of The Intro MatchMakers, they are able to connect with high-caliber prospective partners.  It’s not about just meeting people; The Intro helps their clientele meet the right people.  

The Intro MatchMakers is about convenience, exclusivity and luxury.  Whether you are a busy executive looking for love or a reliable concierge service to help maintain your lifestyle, the dedicated and experienced staff of The Intro will be an invaluable resource. In addition to Charlotte, The Intro also services the greater metropolitan areas of Atlanta, Miami and Washington, DC. To learn more about what The Intro offers, please visit www.intromatchmakers.com or call 800-661-1514 to schedule a consultation.

 To celebrate the official launch, a handpicked and select group of Charlotte’s elite are invited to a private reception where they will learn about the company and be personally introduced to The Intro co-owners Yolanda Hayes and LaPhaedra Howard.  The guest list is invite-only for this event. There will be events open to the general public in the future. For media inquiries or interview requests, contact Jameka Whitten at 704.261.5290 or Jameka@jswmediagroup.com.


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